knowledge is power wrote:
You don't think there is sexism in porn??!!
I didn't say that, not one bit. Please don't misconstrued what I'm saying. I am referring to campaigns such as "No More Page 3" and the general attitude that any consenting woman who chooses to express her body in such ways, and enjoys her craft, is somehow being discriminated against and oppressed - is insulting to the woman and does
not promote the idea that women are independent individuals, who can think for themselves and who are genuinely passionate about what they do. I, genuinely have friends who work/aspiring to work in the porn industry. They are incredibly denounced by many feminists online.
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knowledge is power wrote:Most modern straight porn is very sexist. It focuses primarily on the mans pleasure. and the woman is almost always in a submissive position.
Having targeted-audience is not sexist. There are many, many types of pornography, fetishes, kinks. The thing about pornography though, is that it is all fantasy, and very, very rarely does it effect a person's judgement and actions in real life.
And actually, male dominance is
not the most popular type of pornography. The most popular type of pornography according to Pornhub, is "lesbian". This would actually make the assumption that straight males, generally are more attracted to, not even being a part of the art, and prefer watching women "pleasure" eachother.
The specific type of porn you are talking about is "BDSM".
Pornography, has been shown to have little effect on teenagers. Teenagers are aware that it is just fantasy and most teenagers even use it as a form of sexual education. (though, probably not the best source.) - The worst thing that comes from pornography is self-consciousness. People are worried that they may not be as attractive for their partner. However, this is not directly linked to pornography, more so comparing yourself to others.
The number of sexual assaults per year is always dropping significantly. You'd assume that with the recent, easily-obtainable amount of pornography on the internet, that, if it was effecting people, that rate would have gone up once the internet was introduce, however, that is not the case. There were very similar talks around the time violent video games were introduced, and that it may be effecting their children. Yet, many studies proved otherwise. It's nearly the exact same case.
knowledge is power wrote:That doesn't mean there is equality in a society. It's attitudes that matter. There are many ways to get around legal issues in order to discriminate against women.
Of course there is not true equality in society. But society does
not generally favor men over women or vice-versa. In fact, polls show that an estimated 81% of (British) people believe that both men and women should be treated equally in every way. There will always be assholes who feel otherwise. An authoritarian system where we try to control every aspect of society is very distopian and toxic. We should just do the best to our abilities, in conjunction with people's human-rights.
knowledge is power wrote:Wow. The vilification of Anita Sarkeesian is highly disturbing since she is only highlighting what is pretty well known about the gaming industries unhealthy portrayal of women.
Do... I really need to go into that person? She is often very inaccurate and very biased. Her inspiration and idea of feminism is that of Bell Hooks. A very misandrist and sexist version of Feminism.
knowledge is power wrote:Maybe you should look at things objectively, or from a woman's point of view. Do you know what male privilege is?
Male privilege is a very incorrect idea to be promoting. Privilege often does not come in regards to biological sex, it is specific to the individual's position, struggles, financial situation, etc. To throw around the idea that being a male makes you generally privileged (in the western world) in comparison to women, is insensitive, and just plain wrong, and promotes a prejudiced against innocent men that holds them in contempt for actions that are not their own.
Sexism is something that effects many people of both sexes. And it has a lot to do with gender-roles. The idea of being the strong, stupid, protector as a man, and the fragile, intelligent, smooth woman, are often promoted in the media - which is fine, until people start taking it as "that's how things should be" or that they are "rules" rather than specific things on individual levels, that vary among person to person. Correlation =/= causation. These assumptions effect both sexes.
Now, a lot of the time, these gender-role ideals are presented as rules "of god", by religion. However, a lot of the time feminists prefer to blame men and steer clear of religion, because "everyone has the right to believe what they want"... Which I find ridiculous.
Note: Every time I've mentioned "feminsts" here, I'm talking about the feminst movement and people who identify as such. As I mentioned before, the strict definition of feminism is very different to the movement.