teo123 wrote:Thanks! You can't help me a lot, but it's still interesting to see what you think.
No problem.

Unfortunately, obviously, I can't really do anything to get you out of the situation. It can help to vent though, albeit not as helpful on a computer, but still.
teo123 wrote:I thought that the backfire effect is that when one sees the contrary evidence, he doesn't make his position milder, but stronger. If you show me the evidence in form of me not truly believing what I am saying, I will start to truly believe that and therefore take a stronger position.
I don't understand. If you're aware that this isn't valid reasoning, then it's completely within your ability to think differently.
You're choosing to believe something regardless of evidence, and when the evidence favors the other side, it's just closed-minded to become stronger in your original belief. No offense, I'm not saying you're closed-minded, but that kind of thinking is just stubborn.
teo123 wrote:I was thinking about my sick and old grandparents before they died. My grandfather had lung cancer and was suffering for years and years, not being able to breathe well and having almost constant chest pain, before he finally died. My grandmother was mentally ill and was constantly afraid of everything and everyone because of that. Do you think that their lives then gave them more pleasure than pain? I don't think so.
Well... Ok, maybe not. I guess at that point then I can't really tell you not to do it. But that's being old AND sick. Just being old isn't necessarily that bad.
teo123 wrote:I think that most of them aren't and that you are just taking a biased sample.
Haha. I just really like Bernie Sanders.
But seriously, being old doesn't have to be bad.
teo123 wrote:
Seriously?! I can't even fix the problem with my parents and you are telling me I can help the world?
Of course you can help the world. Just by not eating meat, you're already helping the world.
And when you grow up, you can join a career that helps the world. You're really interested in computer science, right? I'm sure you could use that to help the world.
Obviously you're somewhat limited as a teenager, but that doesn't mean you can't help the world.
teo123 wrote:You said that me being stuck in a computer simulation justifies any behavior because, well, it's just a computer simulation. I said that it doesn't, because I don't know who, of those who I perceive, are a programmed part of a computer simulation and who is a real person that happens to be stuck in that computer simulation, just like I happen to be. What's so unclear there?
That's not what it sounded like you were saying. But I don't understand that either.
How do you know you're real and not apart of the simulation? Why would it be mixed? And how is this helping you with the situation with your mom? You'd rather have her be a simulation than in jail? And she is in jail, simulated jail.

Or do you think there's another mom you never met? How is that better?

What connection could you have with a mom you never met?
Again, no offense, I'm just confused.
That doesn't have anything to do with computers.