teo123 wrote:
What do you think "winning" a discussion is?
Well, when you make the other side think it has no rational arguments and it shuts up.
In a world where everybody was 100% rational, that might work. In reality, it almost never does.
Take an analogy of a chess game. How do you win? Well, you can only even really
play if both people are following the rules. If you play by the rules, and the other person is breaking the rules and moving in impossible ways, you can not win. All you can do is call off the game because the other person is cheating.
So, if the people you're arguing with are cheating, you have two options: end the argument, or just cheat right back.
Tell them in Genesis god created man and gave him all of the plants to eat, and so did all of the other animals. This proves man can live on plants alone. Checkmate.
Of course that's a bullshit argument, but it might shut them up.
Yes, later 'god' gave man permission to eat meat, but this was only an option, never a commandment. According to the Bible, the human body is made originally to run on 100% plants.
If they cheat, and you really need an argument to shut them up, that should do it.
teo123 wrote:First of all, my parents don't speak or read English, so showing them what you've told me to show them wouldn't help. And they have no bright idea about what is American Dietary Association, or anything similar. Of course they wouldn't trust it over what they have been told in school. And how do you say "scientific consensus" in Croatian? How do you even say "factory farming" in Croatian? How do you even say "adequate" in Croatian? I don't have such knowledge. Neither do they, when I told them about animals being kept in factories in America, they were shocked, and it is more than likely that it's no different here. Yet alone how do you say "artificial insemination", "battery cages", "debeaking", "antibiotic resistance", "liberation", "sentience", "cognitive dissonance", "rationalization", "anecdotal evidence", or such terms you use here in Croatian. Sorry, but I can't just copy you to win the discussions.
Maybe your parents aren't playing fair. Maybe they don't even know the rules of the game.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_thought
If that's the case, just don't have the discussion with them. Tell them it's your choice, and just don't eat meat.
If you have any problems, you can ask here and we will help. A lot of people's parents won't let them go vegan, and I can understand.
If they physically force you to eat meat or beat you, then you have no choice.
If they will not buy you B-12, then you should try to get them to buy you some canned oysters, which have a high concentration of B-12. If they won't buy you that, then maybe you can try to convince them with the Bible, or some other argument.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3j80WpjM0M
Mic. The Vegan's video on B-12 is pretty good.
B-12 is made by bacteria, and it's all around us. Animals don't make B-12, only bacteria.
It's mostly because we live in a sterilized world with sterilized water that we need to eat extra B-12 from other sources (and because we don't eat poop anymore as our ancestors did). This was not as it was in Biblical times or prehistoric times, where B-12 deficiency would be unheard of.
teo123 wrote:But, of course, Croatian has words for "food chain" and "carnivore" and "masculinity" and "natural" and "protein" and all the similar terms. Of course they sound smarter. Especially since it's almost always them starting the discussions. They are usually short, so that I don't have much time to think of smart responses to their arguments, and I don't want to constantly have to be ready to debate.
Just don't take the bait. Don't respond. Or, write down your response on a card.
Something like "This is what I believe, please respect my beliefs. I will not discuss it."
With a rational person you can have a rational conversation, but they are cheating. Just opt out.
You can't play a chess game with somebody breaking the laws of chess, and you can't have a conversation with somebody breaking the laws of thought/logic.
teo123 wrote:Secondly, especially on forums, how do I convince those people that the source I am quoting is reliable? Come on now! As they often point out, there are some "reliable" sources that support weird diets which have caused deaths of many people. The only response I can give is that vegetarian diets are of course different and are followed by millions of people all their lives. But, let's face it, I can't convince them that they are healthier.
You're arguing with stupid/irrational people who don't understand what scientific consensus is and don't respect it. They think they know better, or they think that bloggers who make things up are a good source.
You can't argue with these people if they are committed to being irrational and ignorant. Just ignore them.
teo123 wrote:Thirdly, refuting my arguments for Flat Earth Theory was way more convincing than emphasizing that it's a scientific consensus that the Earth is round.
Scientific consensus should have been enough to be convincing. I know that refutation is better, but you can only do that if you have a very deep knowledge of the subject. I have a very deep knowledge of physics (at least, relative to most people), so I can do it.
You don't have a deep enough knowledge of nutrition and philosophy to refute their arguments. That's OK, you don't need to have a deep knowledge to recognize the value of consensus and respect it. You just need to be honest in recognizing that true experts know more than you do, have evaluated this carefully, and have weighed in saying vegan diets can be healthy and even offer some health benefits.
Some day, if you focus your studies, you will have that knowledge. Then you'll be able to do the same kind of refutations I can. I may be decades older than you are. We barely learn anything in our first ten years of life, you've just gotten started. There's no shame in not knowing these things in depth. The important thing is to trust experts until you have enough knowledge to understand for yourself.
teo123 wrote:And they don't look into each side, especially if there is another person quote-mining the pages I linked to.
That's because they are not intellectually honest. I know it's frustrating, but you can't do anything about that. People have a choice to be ignorant and irrational.
teo123 wrote:I explained the difference between science and religion already. Multiple times.
And, if I can't trust my reasoning, how could I notice them?
Read some books about it so you can improve your reasoning. Also, go back and read my posts about it again. If there's something you don't understand, I can explain it to you.
Reasoning is something much easier to teach than the sum of empirical science.
teo123 wrote:I know that. But, if I correctly understood my doctor, they can determine whether I am currently having an allergic reaction or not.
Yes, but not what you're allergic to. It could be your soap, an insect, etc. It could even be to the lotion of another kid at school that got on your seat before you sit there. It could be almost anything IF it's an allergic reaction. As a localized reaction, it's probably a contact allergy which means it's probably something you're touching regularly with your leg, or an infection of some kind. The test won't say what you're allergic to, if it's allergic.
You need a skin test to determine what is causing the allergy.
If you happen to be allergic to soy, that's fine: it's not hard to be vegan without soy. Many vegans don't eat soy. You can choose other beans instead, there are probably a dozen varieties available where you are.
teo123 wrote:When I think about it, you are probably right. I am influenced by my father, who is a bit hypochondriac. He told my doctor all kinds of stuff. He constantly sees symptoms of various illnesses, especially mental illnesses, on me. When I, for example, wasn't able to find our bag on a beach, he said I lost the contact with the reality.
I'm sorry about that. He could be worried you'd turn out like your mother, and I can sympathize with that, but if he hounds you about this it could end up being emotionally abusive.
Don't take what he says so seriously, and maybe talk to him about it and ask him to stop.
teo123 wrote:He is also concerned about me often not being able to understand what he is telling me. He says that my spending time on forums and programming is isolating myself from the reality.
I'm pretty sure you've learned more reality on this forum than anywhere else. Tell him it made you stop believing in conspiracy theories, maybe he will lighten up.
teo123 wrote:And he also says that my arguments for not eating meat are nonsensical and schizoid. Needless to say, he was saying that me believing in conspiracy theories was a symptom of neurosis and paranoia.
Conspiracy theories are like religion: they're a faith founded belief. It doesn't mean somebody is clinically insane. Although it is a delusional belief, it's rooted in false knowledge not a biological problem.
teo123 wrote:He constantly reads about medicine on-line, and yet, ironically, he supports alternative medicine and eating meat (though he doesn't really force that upon me).
It sounds like he's being hypocritical. I'm afraid that since he is the parent you can't do much about it. It's good that he doesn't force you, though.
If he won't buy you B-12, that's a bit of a problem, will he buy you canned oysters instead? If not, as I said before, maybe somebody can send you some B-12 then you'd have nothing to worry about.
teo123 wrote:Though, let's face it, some of my behavior was insane. Stating that airplanes don't exist, that the Earth is flat, that there are massive conspiracies covering those things, destroying the braces on my extremely irregular teeth with screw jack (seriously!)… I wouldn't worry about those things, since the psychiatrist prescribed me only some weak tranquilizers, but, yeah, my father does worry about them.
You're done with that stuff now, though. Somebody who is clinically insane isn't going to be cured of that kind of stuff by rational discussion. You're probably fine.