Correct. If you have a facial tattoo, you can talk about veganism online -- that's fine -- but you probably shouldn't mention it to people you meet, because they will likely come away from the experience with an impression of veganism that is more socially abnormal.RanOverByATrain wrote: First of all, are you saying that these people shouldn't say that they are vegan or talk about it?
Just having a couple tattoos on your arms isn't as much of a deal breaker; you can probably still do more good than harm that way in the right circles.
Kids, for example, see teachers with a tattoo as more cool and interesting, so it could be a better way to reach them.
The point is that there's a calculus to this: A certain amount of tattoo in certain situations which is optimal for being normal or cool, and a certain amount that makes you a freak and defeats your arguments before you even form them.
A rat as a pet is pretty minor, but maybe don't talk about it. It's more socially acceptable after Harry Potter, I imagine.
There's a big difference between a couple tattoos on somebody's arm and facial tattoos.RanOverByATrain wrote: According to psychology, people like people who are like them. They are also more likely to listen to what they have to say if they are like them. People who have tattoos will be able to convert other people who are also accepting of tattoos, whether they have visible tattoos, hidden tattoos, or none at all. I don't have any tattoos, but I don't care what other people do with their body.
Do you really want somebody who looks like this going around and advocating veganism? http://1.media.collegehumor.cvcdn.com/9 ... lasses.jpg
Again, this is minor. But you shouldn't bring it up anyway.RanOverByATrain wrote: The same with people who have pet rats or any other uncommon pet.
Which is why people have the perception of vegans as weird, and have a hard time imagining being one, and are even averse to it on that basis alone.RanOverByATrain wrote: I found out about veganism through people who weren't the "normal" type. I'm not "normal" either.
It is really? Even if it will prevent veganism from growing because it just reinforces the notion that vegans are freaks?RanOverByATrain wrote: They don't need to be at the front, no. But they can still encourage people like them to go vegan and that's a good thing.
We need the 99%, not the 1%.
You probably don't have a facial tattoo or let people know you believe the Earth is flat.RanOverByATrain wrote: People are more accepting of it and know that there are good points because of me.
For teaching, a tattoo on the arm may be good. Facial tattoos are completely different, though, which is what I specified.RanOverByATrain wrote: Having a visible tattoo isn't a good idea for a lot of jobs, but with some jobs it doesn't matter, so it's not always irrational.
Stop equating facial tattoos with just any visible tattoos.RanOverByATrain wrote: Not all people will tune you out if you have a visible tattoo.
There are enough people who are accepting of modest arm tattoos to make it OK as long as you're otherwise normal.
I do, and it's a waste of my time. Every time I have to spend a post explaining that, it wastes time I could otherwise use for vegan activism. Like this post right now.RanOverByATrain wrote: I can tell you spend a lot of time typing your posts. Surely you can spend a minute saying not all vegans are the same and pointing out it's irrational to think so if you feel like it. You point out flaws in logic any other time.
Even on a forum we have a limited amount of time to reach somebody. People will only read and respond for so long. The more arguments people have against veganism, the more likely we'll lose the audience.
This is an essential discussion to have, because vegans being weird is harming veganism as a movement and retarding its growth; it would be much better, however, if vegans would just accept that as obvious and try to act more normal rather than wasting everybody's time arguing that they should be able to advocate Flat Earth along side veganism and have facial tattoos if they want to, and it's other people's faults for associating that with veganism.
That's good, I hope you do this as soon as you can.RanOverByATrain wrote: Whenever I have the money to get veneers, I will. If I get cavities first, I will fix those too. I wouldn't let them get bad enough to affect my life, especially if it affected my job or it caused me pain.
One is outright immoral (making the choice to be weird and harm veganism), the other is unfortunate.RanOverByATrain wrote: It's not really different. If you are going to say it's not logical to care, but people will, then it won't be seen as different to them because they're not acting rational anyway. Especially if you are going to be saying that they wouldn't listen to me talk. They wouldn't ever hear me say why I have bad teeth.
But seriously, I highly doubt your teeth are as bad as somebody having a facial tattoo or believing the Earth is flat.
He's still doing pretty well. He would do better if he didn't make misogynistic sounding comments sometimes.RanOverByATrain wrote: I've heard he's doing well. I don't pay attention myself, so I can't say anything about that. But I'm sure that there are people who would like someone who acts like a jerk.
You need to restrict your insults, if possible, to specific individuals, not sweeping categories of people. It limits the number of people you alienate.
We don't really have to know why to know that they do. People have a higher tolerance for personal insults than insults that suggest the character of the person making them is negative. E.g. if you speak against women, people will view you as a misogynist -- that's not good for you.RanOverByATrain wrote: I didn't mean that nobody got offended by it. I know that people do. I don't see why they would be offended though.
It depends on how sympathetic and well liked that person is, and what you attack.RanOverByATrain wrote: Attacking one person reflects on your personal character too.
Trump attacking the disabled reporter was a bad call. But, also, because the person was disabled and he made fun of him for that (rather than just calling him an idiot or something) people also saw that as disrespect to disability in general.
It's very safe to insult somebody's intelligence. Not so safe to insult physical features.
You don't know 100%, but you can be pretty sure. You can get a measure of a person and the personality pretty quickly if you have experience.RanOverByATrain wrote:You don't know how one way will work until after you do it, unless you already knew the person.
Right, there need to be nice people too. The trouble is that nice people don't usually get press, so they can't really reach anybody unless they're already famous.RanOverByATrain wrote:But for others, it won't. That's ok as long as there are others for those other people.
Celebrities (who are famous for other reasons) should be nice vegans.
You achieve a larger audience.RanOverByATrain wrote:So you're insulting the person to get the audience to pay attention then?
We're accepting, just don't talk about that stuff and make us look weird.RanOverByATrain wrote:If I had thought all vegans weren't accepting of other vegans who they thought would make them look bad when really it's something unrelated to veganism, I wouldn't have been as open to learning about it.
I'm less interested in attracting the 1% of weirdos and more interested in attracting the 99%, though. So, if we lose 1% of potential vegans and gain headway into the 99%, that's worth it.
Good luck. The problem is that all of these people are anti-science conspiracy theorist nutters; you can't falsify their positions, because they'll just make up more excuses to believe what they do, and deny the evidence.RanOverByATrain wrote:We should obviously correct other vegans if they say something wrong. Try to get flatearthers, anti-GMO people, anti-vaccine people to see the truth...
Our best chance is with those who believe in and respect science.
Exactly. What's the problem with this?RanOverByATrain wrote:Yeah, but saying that is just a nicer way of saying one is better.
We're talking about perception here.
Great.RanOverByATrain wrote:Ok, I agree that I shouldn't bring that up in a topic about veganism or bring it up to a random person while in a conversation about veganism.
You should leave it alone, and not discuss abortion in another thread. Ideally, stick to vegan topics, or topics that show how friendly and normal you are and are non-controversial (and keep a sensible vegan message in your signature).RanOverByATrain wrote:However, if I'm on a forum, I'm not going to only talk about one thing. Maybe one day I want to discuss abortion in a different thread. What do you think I should do then? The posters will see all my posts. Do you think that's ok because it's not in the same thread so it's obvious it's not related to it?
Or make a different account to do that with, if you really feel the need.
It's fine to discuss that stuff on a vegan/vegetarian forum. But not when you're out and about.