The guy I was dating, I only knew him for 2 months, and went out for 2 weeks. Short yes, but let me list my reasons.
I am 18 years on, just started collage, and I am having trouble with grades.
Another thing to point out is that I am still very confused about my sexuality, and mostly guys turn me off. I feel nothing for them, yes I am a girl.
To add onto that, I had my doubts about the relationship when it came to him.
He is 26, 8 years apart from me.
Been in college longer then I have.
Just got over a break up 2 weeks before asking me.
He's kind of clingy, ex: Kissed after the second date like full on make out runnign hands through hair. Touching my stomach, rubbing it, and sometimes my waist line. After the second date, nibbling my ear, kissing my neck, ear, cheek, forehead, and sniffing my hair. Likes to hug a lot, not that I mind, but it went on longer then normal aka 1 minuet and I had class to get to. We did nuzzle noses, as i was okay with that, but he seemed to keep trying to kiss my lips for making out. I like short and brief first few days, not feeling his teeth on mine.
Tried to say he was going at my own pace, I gave him the okay to kiss no make out session. I was too confused to stop him, as I had never done it, but it felt uncomfortable each time.
Seemed he always wanted to go out to eat at some place when I had a break. Again it was hard to say no to him, he wasn't demanding, but I often didn't feel comfortable with him.
When saying 'I love you' it never felt right, I said it to make him feel better, because he wouldn't stop saying it after our first date! And I had another date that night, two guys in one day. But even with the other I felt nothing, I thought I did with this guy but as I read this it sounds like I was delusional.
He always wanted me to hang out with him, when I told him I like my space. Even though he said he didn't want much of my time, it felt like he was trying to get it.
When I called it off before it got farther, he kept saying he's 'going to miss that' or 'you'll make someone happy' it felt uncomfortable. Like he was guilt tripping me, but told me not to feel guilty. Even though I told him before he even asked me out 'I think I am a lesbian.'.
And the final thing was that he wanted me to be in contact, always asking me to be on facebook, and I never use facebook anymore. And my phone I never have on my person at home as home is my wind down time. I'd find 2 to 3 texts, and 1 or 2 call attempts.
Yet I keep feeling guilty.... I think, I feel like I know I did the right thing. But how do I get over the guilt with the over whelming amount of evidence?
(My strictly gay friends called me a traitor when I started dating a woman, but the important thing was I was happy in the relationship.) Just don't get "guilted" into staying in a relationship that you are not happy with. You're still young, so understand lasting relationships don't get easier over time. If it is a new relationship and you aren't happy, it is very doubtful it will improve with time. Best of luck.